Truth emerges more readily from error than from confusion.
Whenever one person stands up and says: "Wait a second, this is wrong", it helps other people to do the same.
Family does not mean: keeping secrets, walking on eggshells, lying to keep the peace, pretending others are healthy when they are not, tiptoeing around the truth, attending events that derail myu healing process, defending poor choices, engaging in toxic behavior, remaning loyal to destructive patterns, or sacrificing my needs in an attempt to fix or save others.
If you could erase all the mistakes of your past,
you would also erase all of the wisdom of you present.
Remember the lesson, not the disappointment.